Throwing in the towel…

Perhaps I’ll just move it. I haven’t decided. I have two subscribers to this blog, and one of them is me. Most of the comments that I receive are spam with the notable and shining exceptions of comments by Gip and Ken. Recently, I’ve started working on a website which will serve as my IT portfolio. Given the lack of interest here, I think my time will be better spent working on that.

This has been fun. I’ve learned a lot and made a couple of friends along the way. The domain and hosting are paid up for a couple of months. I may save a few posts for use in my portfolio, but the site will probably disappear as I don’t intend to renew my domain or hosting.

Gip and Ken, if you keep writing, I’ll keep reading.

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Let’s talk about experiences

In one of my recent posts, I mentioned that people report that memories of experiences made them more happy than buying or possessing something. I thought it would be an interesting thought experiment to compare and contrast purchase/experience items so we (ok, mostly me) could see how one thing (purchased) could be replaced by something (experienced). If what I’ve read in 59 Seconds is accurate, the things in the second column will create more joy in our lives than the first.

Purchased Experienced
Exercise DVD/equipment Exercise class
Video Game Attending a game or playing a board game
Movie DVD/download Going to a movie
Donating to a charity Volunteering
Book Book club

These are just a few things off the top of my head. I live a pretty isolated life in a rural area so I’m probably missing several options. Can you think of more?

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The cause of our unrest…

What drives our goals? Do we just live chasing and fulfilling one urge after another? I’ll certainly admit that I have trouble stifling the ‘I want, I get, what’s next?’ merry-go-round in my head. I fought it today and haven’t even left the house. I saw a sale on topaz jewelry online. Ohh, shiny! My first thought was to buy it. Luckily, my second thought was “but I don’t wear jewelry…”

It’s like we’ve been given a purpose in life by the great vendor in the sky.. buy, buy, buy. I mentioned earlier this week that I’m reading 59 Seconds. One of the observations made was that people usually relate an experience when asked what has made them happy in the past. We don’t remember the things we buy as being things that made us happy. Worse, I know that I’ve felt trapped in the past by things that I’ve bought. No only did buying them fail to make me happy, having them stressed me out. Mostly because I had failed to consider the true cost of the item.

Every penny we spend must be earned. Most of us trade our time for money. Money is a social construct. We give it value. We trade time, which we can never get back, for movies, potato chips, cars, houses, taxes… the list goes on. The challenge is to really understand that we have only a limited time to live. Once we understand that, we may understand that every second is immensely valuable. Do we really want to trade it for a bag of potato chips?

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59 Seconds – day three

This is day three of the perfect diary from 59 Seconds: Think a Little, Change a Lot (Borzoi Books) by Richard Wiseman. Today, I’m supposed to imagine my future, perfect life. Who would I be and how would I be if I could be exactly as I wish? Such difficult questions. I haven’t really given this much thought. This is kind of surprising to me. In the go, go, go of life, I’ve forgotten to figure out where I’m going! When I imagine my perfect future, these things come to mind:

Quiet
Warm
Entertained
Tidy
Simple
Certainly, I’d be physically thinner and stronger.

Beyond that? Not a clue. I can see that I have some thinking to do.

Who would you be and how would you be if you could be exactly as you wished?

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More 59 Seconds

As I mentioned yesterday, I’m reading 59 Seconds: Think a Little, Change a Lot (Borzoi Books) by Richard Wiseman. Today’s part of the perfect diary is to write about the most wonderful experience of my life.

This is hard. Harder than I thought it would be. Not because I can’t think of anything wonderful but because I can’t decide which thing is the most wonderful. I have children and a kind, caring husband. I’m happy to live in Iowa where consenting adults can marry. I’m proud that I’ve completed a master’s degree. I really can’t narrow it down to just one wonderful experience. How great is that?

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59 Seconds by Richard Wiseman

I’ve just started reading 59 Seconds: Think a Little, Change a Lot (Borzoi Books) by Richard Wiseman. I don’t care much for the self-help or guru crowd but I’m very interested in psychology and human behavior. Weird for an IT goober, eh? Anyway….

One of the first suggestions he makes is to make a perfect diary. His starts off on Monday of the week, but I’ll just start now.

Day 1 is thanksgiving

List 3 things you are grateful for:

1) I’m grateful that our children and grandchild are healthy.
2) I’m grateful to have a life partner who loves me yet gives me the emotional and physical room to be who I am.
3) I’m grateful for my friends who are always there when I need them, even if they don’t agree or can’t relate to what I’m dealing with.

Tomorrow, I’ll be relating one of the most wonderful experiences of my life.

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I didn’t want to buy it anyway!

Most people complain that someone is always trying to sell them something. I seem to encounter the opposite. I have been in the market for a few things in the last six months. I’ve tried to buy them. Really, I have. However, I get to the closing point and the sales people just disappear (if I’ve had any luck getting a response at all). Here’s my list:

Business liability insurance -sales person didn’t respond to followup emails.

Online technical training -sales person promised to send a quote and didn’t. The class is supposed to start Monday. Guess I won’t be there.

An ebay lot -seller requested that potential bidders contact her before bidding. She never responded and the listing expired.

Maybe I have bad timing? Maybe correspondence with me leads to life threatening events which prevent them from getting back to me… ever again. I don’t know. I do know that it’s saved me quite a bit of money that I would have spent if they’d responded! No buyer’s remorse for me.

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Happy Thanksgiving!

Happy Thanksgiving everyone!

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Updated list for places to write for money

Well, it’s been a little while since I wrote the article about places to write for upfront pay.

Remilon – Remilon pays by the hour. The pay is above minimum wage, which is $7.25 in my state. They pay twice per month. You must work a minimum of 15 hours or complete 10 articles per pay period. The maximum number of hours per pay period is 80.

Textbroker – Textbroker now pays once per week. You will be rated when you apply. You will be limited to writing articles that are posted at or below your rated level.

Constant Content – This hasn’t changed much from when I last wrote about them. I’ve heard that editing times are longer lately, so give yourself plenty of time. One word of caution, you must be able to edit your own work if you want to sell articles on Constant Content. If your submitted articles are returned due to errors more than a few times, you will be barred from submitting any more articles. Ever.

That’s the end of the list of places that I’ve written for and will still recommend. Google’s rollout of Panda has greatly reduced the number of content writing jobs that are still available. Here are some others that I’ve read about but can’t vouch for:

iWrite
Merchant Circle
WordGigs

Good Luck All!

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Iowa’s enhanced re-employment services program

If a search of Google, Yahoo or other brought you here, know that you are welcome and I feel your pain. You probably received an offer, that you could not refuse, from Iowa Workforce to attend the re-employment orientation. Now, you are searching the Internet, like I did, to see what it is all about.

The orientation is 3 hours long. We had one break. Attendance is taken and late arrivals will not be admitted. Continuation of your benefits is subject to showing up for this, don’t miss it. One of the guys in my class never received his first invitation. It must have gotten lost in the mail. They terminated his benefits, required that he attend the next orientation, and he mentioned that he was going through an appeal to get his unemployment benefits reinstated.

The orientation is very fast-paced. The presenter told us that it used to be 6 hours long but now they cram it all into 3. The most interesting part for me was the skills assessment. You are given a quick test to see what types of work you prefer. After scoring, you see that your interests are some combination of Realistic (R), Investigative (I), Artistic (A), Social (S), Enterprising (E) and Conventional (C). You can go to O*Net Online @ http://www.onetonline.org/find/descriptor/browse/Interests/ (links aren’t working for some reason) and find careers that fit your interest categories. Pretty handy.

Other topics during the orientation include resume writing, filling out applications, dressing for and behavior during interviews, and a discussion of how Iowa Workforce can help you in your job hunt. I attended orientation in Mason City. Among other things, they offer language and computer application training to help you freshen your skill set.

All in all, it was a very good experience. The presenter, and every other Iowa Workforce employee that I met, was engaging, helpful and friendly. Oh, if you weren’t ordered to attend you can ask to. Seriously, go.

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